Philippa Perry is a psychotherapist, writer and broadcaster. She contributes to the Guardian and is Red Magazine’s Agony Aunt. Her most recent book about how to make the most of your relationships, especially those with your children is a Sunday Times number one bestseller, The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read. She’ll be talking about how we have relationships with our children, what gets in the way of a good connection and what can enhance it, how we were brought up and how that has a bearing on how we parent, as well as the mistakes will make – especially those we never wanted to make – and what to do about them.